On the World Wide Web you can not only get confused, but also find a husband for single women seeking man. To do this, all you need is to place an ad on a dating site and wait until the very “fish” you are counting on arrives. Let’s talk about how to do it right.
Image is everything
How you write an ad depends on what feedback you receive. So you’ll have to work on creating your own positive image.
Firstly, do not be shy and tell potential suitors about all your advantages – you have a lot of them, right? Imagine that you are writing a kind of resume and just list all the features, qualities and skills that, in your opinion, adorn and distinguish you from others.
Secondly, focus on some detail that will attract attention to you. Psychologists do not advise putting sexuality at the forefront – instead of an offer of a hand and a heart, you will surely get a lot of unambiguous sentences. However, if your goal is to get acquainted without any obligations, then such an emphasis is ideal.
Everyone else should know that men who decide to end their single lives in women are attracted by such qualities as caring, kindness, tenderness, and … the ability to cook deliciously. No matter what the representatives of the emancipated part of the beautiful half of humanity and the men who joined them say, the golden rule “the path to the man’s heart lies through his stomach” has not been canceled. Yes, today is not the old days and in the evening you can go to any restaurant, but if at home a tired man at work meets a smell of delicious and – what is very important! – only for him cooked food, it is worth a lot. For this, you can sell your immortal soul to the devil. Of course, you should not list everything that you know how to cook, but you can write that you are the “world champion in cooking”, a serious man with a sense of humor will like this announcement. Or maybe you know how to sew, knit well, or your hobby – the ability to quickly and efficiently clean or create comfort in the house? Feel free to write about it. Men just do not value these skills in words (and even then, only because they are afraid: it may turn out to be true), in reality, everyone dreams of single chubby women, who not only fulfills and exceeds the plan in the office, but also knows how to do something around the house.
And thirdly, the ad should not set strict conditions for those who want to get to know you. Categorization is unpleasant in itself, and the desire to communicate only with the prince on a white Mercedes can scare away a lot of decent people. And it’s completely optional for those who don’t have this “Mercedes” at all. Even if a man is completely wealthy in material terms, he – and here he can be understood – wants to be appreciated not only for this, but also for other qualities.
No less, and perhaps more important than the announcement. On the one hand, it should represent you in the most favorable light. On the other hand, you still should not be too fond of photoshop, when meeting it is fraught with troubles – for a potential groom, the difference between the object, that is, you, and the photograph displayed on the site can cause serious disappointment. It’s good if he likes you more. And if vice versa? Such a situation will be humiliating both for you and for your self-esteem.
Everything that has been said above about the emphasis on sexuality directly affects photography. A different degree of nudity is welcomed on other sites, on which there is no shortage on the Internet, but not where you are looking for a man for a serious relationship. Already if only because all your knowledge, skills and abilities in this area, the importance of which in no case can be minimized, you can demonstrate to your chosen one a little later.